Exploring the Original Intimacy
This program explores the hidden barriers to intimacy and love. We begin the process of removing them so that operating from love becomes your new CHOICE
What is the Original Intimacy?
The relationship we have with ourselves is based on what we learned in the womb and early years of life. We began this lifetime in the body of another, Mother. Binnie calls this relationship, ‘The Original Intimacy’. The Divine Triad of our personality is developed, through our relationship with mother, mother’s world (which includes father), and ourselves. The Divine Triad forms our fundamental understanding of the world and relationships. It shapes our persona and protective ego. This is then reflected in all of our relationships and subsequent behavioural patterns.
In program three we introduce you to the Healing Breath and during the 1 1/2 hour Skype session, we will take you through a Healing Breath Session in conjunction with the Resonance Questions. The Resonance questions take you deep into your stored memories of your own Source Experience. The resonance questions allow you to connect with the circumstances of your gestation and birth and clients report gaining greater understanding and compassion for their parents. This allows you to remove the negative archetypal thoughts such as "I have done something wrong", "No one is here for me", "My body is not safe", "I am alone and separate" and replace them with love and compassion.
The brainwave pattern of a developing baby is such that it downloads all the information it receives into its subconscious memory. Its capabilities are limited and not at the stage of conscious memory or rational analysis. Therefore if our mother was physically abused during our gestation, we don’t have a conscious memory of this event and we don’t process that our mother was afraid because someone was hurting her. Instead we download the thoughts and emotions that accompany the abuse such as fear of men or self-loathing or a decision that the world is not safe. These thoughts form the basis of our own beliefs about the world we live in.
Although rarely acknowledged, we were awake and aware of what was happening in all the relationships around Mother. She was the centre of our universe while we were in her womb, at our birth, and during the formative stages of our development. Our mother’s actions and interactions with the world, with father, with family, and with friends, were first contact for us. Her perception and her experience of relationships have an influence on our perception and our experience of relationship throughout our lives. If a mother is not aware that the baby inside her is aware and listening, then she is not actively and consciously co-creating with baby. The baby has the sense that he is not listened to or considered a valuable part of the relationship. Recognising and understanding the significance of our Source Experiences on the life we go on to live is the first step to healing the relationship we have firstly, with ourselves and subsequently with the world we live in.